A friend once asked, “why is it when guys talk about their ex-girlfriends, they only say how she looked like?”
It took a divine revelation a meeting later to say, “Well, would they be saying what a wonderful personality she had after they broke up, on say bad terms?”
Another friend asked, ” Between two friends with only looks or personality, which would you choose?”
I sarcastically replied:
Looks of course. If you had a problem with the looks person, that’s what friends with personality and intelligence are for! You talk to them and they figure out your problems. Now compare that with having a mindgame with a personality person. Go to the looks person, and he/she will say “I also dunno lah…”
God forbid that I’d have to swallow my words and believe them now.
Who needs honesty when applied psychology works better?