I make it sound so simple.
Dude, get a job.
Then maybe you’d stop calling her, giving her a chance to miss you and cherish you. You’re always there for her. Before she can even think of missing you… you call.
She wants to feel secure even though she is self-sufficient and independent. Who wants a jobless bum? That might be it. Some girls deny the men the booty until they get a job.
Heck, you might be more appealing after work, formal wear, male pheremones in the air.
Waste no time! If both of you are serious and intense about relationships, then now is soon enough to start. Fear starting, that she may become bored of you? Even if she did, both of you wouldn’t be offended; it’s not so much of boredom but a sense of complacency. I hope. Long-distance issues? You want her, take her now, don’t wait until you’re about to leave to start a flurry of emotions, where both of you will decide to break it off instead of continue.
Once you guys get it on, I’ll be glad for both of you. Even though I don’t know you, dude.
I’m a pharmacist, prescribing drugs that I’ll never use.